SOME relationships are strong enough to last a lifetime,
and it's not attributed to luck or chance. It's thanks to
continuous efforts from both parties and a desire to be
together.
There are certain qualities that should never be missing
from a loving partnership, and once they are, it's only a
matter of time until things start to fall apart.
There is no single secret to making a relationship last
because it involves so many other aspects that depend
on one another. The key is whether you're able to
maintain each of those parts.
See 10 things that every strong relationship should have.
1. Friendship
A lasting friendship often equals a strong relationship
overall because you share a deeper bond that goes
beyond a romantic level. With friendship, you have a
more durable foundation that's fulfilling on multiple parts.
2. Trust
If friendship is the foundation, distrust is what can seep
in between the cracks and make it all crumble.
Even if you and your partner check off all the other nine
items on this list, your relationship will not survive
without trust. No matter how good things are, one
person's doubt is enough to drive the rest into the ground.
3. Respect
This one should go without saying, but every healthy
relationship should be built upon mutual respect. Both
parties should recognise each other as equals and should
always be open to their partner's thoughts, beliefs,
concerns, and needs.
4. Affection
The honeymoon phase of not being able to keep your
hands off each other will naturally fade over time. But
that shouldn't mean that affection should be completely
forgotten.
Verbal and physical reminders, such as saying "I love
you" and touching when speaking, reinforce your
connection.
5. Teamwork
One of the most common mistakes couples make is
forgetting that they're teammates. Your significant other
is your partner in life and, therefore, your greatest support
system. You'll be much more successful by working with
and not against them.
6. Honesty
The second either of you begin hiding things from each
other, your relationship will begin to run off track. You
should be able to share anything with your SO while
receiving love and support in return.
Secrets can become cancerous and snowball into further
damage. You'll always carry a sense of guilt as long as
you keep things to yourself, and your and your partner's
dynamic is bound to be affected.
7. Intimacy
Intimacy is not only limited to sex, although sex does play
a crucial role in relationship success. It comes in layers,
becoming more authentic and sweeter with time and care.
Intimacy requires a deeper understanding of each other
that's far more significant than physical attraction.
8. Playfulness
You never want your relationship to get too serious, and
not in terms of intensity. No matter how deep you are into
things, whether it be marriage with kids or dating long-
term, both partners should remember to maintain a sense
of humour.
Jokes that were once considered funny shouldn't one day
be met with irritation. Keep things as lighthearted and
playful as they were in the beginning.
9. Support
You should always be each other's biggest cheerleader.
Encourage your partner to go after what they want and
ensure them that you'll be by their side no matter the
result.
By being excited about each other's achievements and
celebrating even the little things, both parties benefit from
a supportive relationship.
10. Unconditional Love
True love doesn't come with rules and terms, so don't
enforce any. At the end of the day, a relationship will not
last if the couple doesn't share a meaningful love for
each other on every level, including as individuals.
It doesn't work if you selectively love them as a parent
but not as your friend, or as a teammate but not as your
romantic partner. Together, your love should be well-
rounded, abundant, and mutual.
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